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Strength Through Uncertainty: Building Resilience in Challenging Times
by RefreshMH | Feb 17, 2025 | All
Uncertainty is a part of life. Whether it’s navigating career challenges, personal struggles, or global events, life is often unpredictable. But here’s the encouraging truth—while you may not be able to control uncertainty, you can control how you respond to it....
Boundaries in Relationships: How to Support Your Mental Health
by RefreshMH | Oct 10, 2024 | Boundaries
Navigating relationships is no easy feat. Whether it's with a partner, family member, or friend, maintaining a healthy relationship requires clear communication and mutual respect. One of the cornerstones of any healthy relationship is setting and respecting...
The Art of Saying No: Empowering Your Mental Health
by RefreshMH | Sep 30, 2024 | Boundaries
In a world that often celebrates the hustle and the endless to-do lists, saying "no" can feel like a radical act. Yet, it's an essential skill for maintaining mental wellness. Whether it's turning down extra work tasks, declining invitations, or simply setting...
What is Sand Tray Therapy?
by RefreshMH | Mar 29, 2024 | Adult Counseling, Anxiety, Autism Treatment, Children Counseling, Depression, Teen Counseling
By Diana Jennings, MS, LLP When you picture going to therapy, most people imagine “talk therapy”, sitting or lying on a couch, talking to a therapist who is seated across the room from them. But imagine you enter your therapist’s office one day and they say, “Today...
The Connection Between Physical and Mental Health
by RefreshMH | Nov 1, 2023 | All
By Eric Nordquist, MA, LPC, NCC I often say in the counseling office, “Physical health is half of mental health” because it’s true and those who are not caring for themselves physically are more vulnerable to mental health problems like anxiety and depression. Certain...
Incorporating Faith into Counseling
by RefreshMH | Aug 30, 2023 | All
By Dequindre Jernigan, MA, LPC Have you ever wondered if faith-based counseling was for you? Are there questions that have you on the fence and you’d like a little more information on what this is all about? Well, here is one perspective on how I engage in faith-based...
Prioritizing Balance
by RefreshMH | May 2, 2023 | All
By Dequindre Jernigan, MA, LPC Oftentimes, we can become overwhelmed by the variety of life’s stressors. Trying to find a balance between family, friends, work, and self-care can be difficult, but it’s not impossible. In order to get the most out of your life and...
The Importance of Recognizing Strengths
by RefreshMH | Jan 31, 2023 | All
By Dequindre Jernigan, MA, LPC When you’re struggling with depression or negative thinking patterns, it can be hard focusing on positive things about yourself, such as your strengths. Low self-esteem is another factor that could make it a challenge. Part of...
5 Common Cognitive Distortions
by RefreshMH | Dec 23, 2022 | All
By Dequindre Jernigan, MA, LPC You may already be familiar with cognitive distortions. You know, those little negative thoughts that influence our actions? No? Well, let's talk about it. We all have thought patterns, whether they're more negatively inclined or...
ADHD – What To Do About It By Dejan Jancevski, MA, LLP
by RefreshMH | Aug 2, 2022 | All
Introduction ADHD is one of the most common conditions affecting children and adults. ADHD symptoms can be challenging for people with the condition and their families, but there are effective treatments that can help reduce symptoms and improve functioning. ADHD is...
Dealing with past abuse and neglect: Is it still a problem today?
by RefreshMH | Jul 1, 2022 | All
What is childhood abuse and neglect?Sometimes people come into the counseling office unsure of whether or not poor treatment received as a child constitutes abuse or neglect. One may have received poor treatment from parents while growing up or sometimes from others...
Life in the Therapy Room!
by RefreshMH | Feb 28, 2022 | All
Existentialism. Now what is that, and how does that apply to therapy? Well…let’s start with the therapy part first. One major reason to see a therapist is to learn what may be the reason you or a loved one are struggling with something, be that called depression,...
I’m a Psychiatrist, and Women Aren’t Being Honest About Their Sex Lives
by RefreshMH | Feb 18, 2022 | All
Mental health struggles can get in the way of your ability to orgasm — and you deserve to get that sorted out. "I have never told anyone that before." I hear this often in my office as a psychiatrist. Talking to me, my patients are often more vulnerable than they have...
Long-term outcomes of a course of deep TMS for treatment-resistant OCD
by RefreshMH | Jan 7, 2022 | All
After a multicenter randomized sham-controlled trial of Deep TMS™ therapy for obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) demonstrated a 38% response rate that is sustained for at least four weeks the FDA granted a de novo clearance for the H7 Coil. In real-world clinical...
Children and Exposure to Terror: The 3 Cs of Coping
by RefreshMH | Dec 6, 2021 | All
This blog was jointly written by “The Older Dad,” Dr. Kevin D. Arnold, and by Ms. Theresa Gaser, MSSA, LISW-S of Trinity Family Counseling, Westerville, Ohio According to the VA, children who are exposed to higher amounts of TV coverage of a disaster develop more...
Respect Your Progress
by RefreshMH | Dec 2, 2021 | All
By Helen Paulsen, LMSW An interesting phenomenon occurs when someone asks us about our goals or wishes for our future. As people, we are oriented to the vision of success at the end stage of that goal. We ponder completing a marathon, earning a degree, publishing a...
Our Authentic Selves? How Important is Finding Who We Are to The Core?
by RefreshMH | Nov 1, 2021 | All
Written By Kristen Boike, MS, LPC, NCC A threat, safety, and sense of self are the cornerstone for feeling secure in this world. Every cell, of every species, and every individual of human existence has an invaluable necessity to recognize, understand, and learn from...
Kalamazoo psychologist, NY National Guardsman to reunite 20 years after 9/11
by RefreshMH | Sep 10, 2021 | All
KALAMAZOO, Mich. (WOOD) — As we approach the 20th anniversary of 9/11, Americans are observing it by remembering where they were and who they were with. A Kalamazoo man with New York roots decided to make sure his brethren in the Big Apple were not alone. Though time...
Cognitive Distortions: How They Influence the Way We Act and Feel
by RefreshMH | Sep 7, 2021 | All
Cognitive Distortions were originated by Aaron Beck in the 1960’s. Cognitive distortions are irrational beliefs that influence feelings and behaviors. Below are common cognitive distortions: Catastrophizing: Thinking only the worst outcome of situations. Jumping to...
Are You Aware of Your Inner Critic
by RefreshMH | Jul 30, 2021 | All
Are you aware of the power of negative thoughts and the havoc they wreak? One enlightenment for me is how easy it is to dwell on the negative. "The research found that the average person has between 12,000 to 60,000 thoughts per day, and of the thousands of thoughts,...
See Me! When You Are Invisible to Yourself
by RefreshMH | Jul 1, 2021 | All
There is a television commercial that features actual patients who have psoriasis. The patients share the emotional pain they feel at being minimized by their disease. They do not feel as if they are actually being seen by others. They believe that all others see is...
Good Mental Health and COVID-19 – Part II
by RefreshMH | May 27, 2021 | All
Greetings, I hope this information finds you to be in the best of health as we all find ourselves continually challenged by the COVID-19 virus. Now one year into the pandemic, we had to make some major lifestyle adjustments to stay safe such as testing, wearing a...
When Doing Leads to Stress – Just Be!
by RefreshMH | Mar 25, 2021 | All
Hello! My name is Steven. How would you like to begin your session today? Counseling with me is not necessarily a time when you come to go over an agenda or to learn a set format of steps to fix a problem. Yes, therapy can be about that and goal setting (and we will...
COVID-19 and mental health are a dual crisis 1 year into the pandemic in Michigan
by RefreshMH | Mar 15, 2021 | All
Written by: Andrew Feather Read the original article on WWMT KALAMAZOO, Mich. — More than 600,000 people in Michigan have been infected and almost 16,000 people have died since Michigan reported its first two cases of COVID-19 March 10, 2020. While the visible impact...
How to Beat Seasonal Affective Disorder
by RefreshMH | Feb 2, 2021 | Depression
If you find yourself feeling a little sad, worried, and depressed every year at this time, you may have a cyclical disorder called Seasonal Affective Disorder. Of course, this year’s cumulative effects of the pandemic and the accompanying isolation, illness and...
Are You Grieving?
by RefreshMH | Jan 6, 2021 | Depression, Grief Counseling
The Pandemic has sparked an enormous about of grief. We are living in a time of uncertainty. We have plunged into despair; many have suffered unexpected losses during this time. People are not only grieving but also dealing with guilt, regret, and shame. Many are...
Four things you can do to support your teen’s mental health
by RefreshMH | Jan 6, 2021 | Children Counseling, Teen Counseling
Show your teenager love and care, while looking after yourself. Read the original article here. Whether you and your teen are getting along well or having challenges, it is important to show that you love and support them, that you can help them navigate tough times...
Social Media Could End Marriage As We Know It
by RefreshMH | Dec 29, 2020 | All, Teen Counseling
Chioma is having troubles with her mother-in-law. I know because she made it headline news on her social media page. She does not share her concerns with the other party in the nuptial contract or with a trained counsellor, but with aliens on social media who are...
Growth Mindset in a Period of Stress
by RefreshMH | Dec 14, 2020 | All, Teen Counseling
Welcome to the final weeks of 2020. Let’s ponder for a moment about our expectations for the year when it started, back in January. Perhaps we had some ideas, some to-do list items, or even some “resolutions”. Now we are approaching a new year on our calendar, when...
Breaking Tradition During the Holiday Season
by RefreshMH | Dec 8, 2020 | All, Teen Counseling
For many families, breaking tradition during the holiday season is inevitable – and a matter of necessity over time. Take the example of Debbie Bourgois of St. Clair County in Michigan. Her husband and two children spent holidays with her husband’s family for many...